101 This or That Questions for Couples

"This or That" questions are a fun and simple way to learn more about your partner's preferences, quirks, and personality. These questions can spark light-hearted conversations and help you discover new things about each other. Here are 101 "This or That" questions for couples to enjoy.

Food and Drink Preferences

1. Coffee or tea?
2. Sweet or savory?
3. Pizza or pasta?
4. Chocolate or vanilla?
5. Wine or beer?
6. Ice cream or cake?
7. Breakfast or dinner?
8. Spicy or mild?
9. Cook at home or dine out?
10. Soda or juice?

Entertainment and Hobbies

1. Movies or TV shows?
2. Reading or writing?
3. Music or podcasts?
4. Comedy or drama?
5. Beach or mountains?
6. Concert or sports event?
7. Dancing or singing?
8. Board games or video games?
9. Museums or parks?
10. Swimming or hiking?

Travel and Adventure

1. Road trip or flight?
2. City or countryside?
3. Hotel or Airbnb?
4. Adventure or relaxation?
5. Mountains or ocean?
6. Summer or winter vacation?
7. Guided tour or explore on your own?
8. Camping or glamping?
9. Historical sites or natural wonders?
10. Solo travel or group travel?

Lifestyle and Daily Life

1. Early bird or night owl?
2. Neat or messy?
3. Plan everything or go with the flow?
4. Introvert or extrovert?
5. Save or spend?
6. Organized or spontaneous?
7. Minimalist or maximalist?
8. Homebody or social butterfly?
9. Dogs or cats?
10. Car or bike?

Fashion and Style

1. Casual or formal?
2. Sneakers or heels?
3. Jeans or shorts?
4. Sweaters or t-shirts?
5. Hats or scarves?
6. Gold or silver?
7. Sunglasses or hats?
8. Dress up or dress down?
9. Bright colors or neutrals?
10. Boots or sandals?

Technology and Gadgets

1. Smartphone or tablet?
2. Laptop or desktop?
3. Text or call?
4. Online shopping or in-store shopping?
5. Streaming or cable?
6. Social media or no social media?
7. E-book or physical book?
8. Digital planner or paper planner?
9. Video games or board games?
10. Smartwatch or traditional watch?

Personal Preferences

1. Shower or bath?
2. Chocolate or candy?
3. Introverted activities or extroverted activities?
4. Alone time or social time?
5. Breakfast in bed or breakfast out?
6. Hot coffee or iced coffee?
7. Cooking or baking?
8. Takeout or homemade meal?
9. Long drive or short walk?
10. Talking or listening?

Seasonal and Weather Preferences

1. Spring or fall?
2. Summer or winter?
3. Rain or snow?
4. Hot or cold?
5. Sunny or cloudy?
6. Snowboarding or skiing?
7. Beach day or pool day?
8. Fireplaces or bonfires?
9. Leaf peeping or flower blooming?
10. Rainy day or sunny day?

Relationships and Emotions

1. Hugs or kisses?
2. Holding hands or cuddling?
3. Love letters or love texts?
4. Serious talks or playful banter?
5. Surprises or planned events?
6. Public displays of affection or private moments?
7. Date night out or date night in?
8. Compliments or gifts?
9. Acts of service or words of affirmation?
10. Laughing together or crying together?

Future and Dreams

1. Dream job or dream home?
2. City life or country life?
3. Stay up late or wake up early?
4. Big family or small family?
5. Long-term planning or living in the moment?
6. Financial security or career satisfaction?
7. Owning a business or working for someone else?
8. Traveling the world or settling down?
9. Renting or owning a home?
10. Early retirement or working later in life?
11. Living near family or living far away?

Exploring these "This or That" questions can lead to fun and enlightening conversations with your partner. For more ways to strengthen your relationship and deepen your connection, check out our online premarital course. This course covers essential topics like communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, faith, finances, and more, helping couples build a strong foundation for their future together.