Getting to know your partner on a deeper level is essential for building a strong and lasting relationship. Here’s a list of 85 get-to-know-you questions for couples that will help you understand each other better and strengthen your bond. Use these questions during date nights, casual conversations, or whenever you want to learn something new about your partner.
1. What is your favorite childhood memory?
2. What is your dream job?
3. What is your favorite book and why?
4. What is your favorite way to spend a weekend?
5. What are you most passionate about?
6. Who has been the most influential person in your life?
7. What is your favorite movie of all time?
8. What are your top three favorite songs?
9. What is your biggest fear?
10. What is one thing you want to accomplish in the next five years?
11. What is your favorite holiday and why?
12. What is your favorite food?
13. What was your favorite subject in school?
14. What is your biggest pet peeve?
15. What is your favorite hobby?
16. What is your favorite season and why?
17. What is your favorite type of music?
18. What is your favorite way to relax?
19. What is one thing you are really good at?
20. What is one thing you are not very good at but wish you were?
21. What is your favorite family tradition?
22. What is your favorite place you’ve ever visited?
23. What is your dream travel destination?
24. What is one thing you’ve always wanted to learn?
25. What is your favorite quote or saying?
26. What is the best advice you’ve ever received?
27. What is your favorite way to exercise?
28. What is your favorite thing about your job?
29. What is your biggest regret?
30. What is your favorite childhood toy?
31. What is your favorite type of cuisine?
32. What is your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
33. What is your favorite memory of us together?
34. What is one thing you admire about your parents?
35. What is your favorite type of dessert?
36. What is your favorite time of day and why?
37. What is your favorite type of weather?
38. What is your favorite thing to do on a Sunday afternoon?
39. What is one goal you have for our relationship?
40. What is your favorite type of animal?
41. What is your favorite thing to do in your free time?
42. What is your favorite thing about where you live?
43. What is your favorite thing about yourself?
44. What is your biggest dream for the future?
45. What is your favorite type of ice cream?
46. What is your favorite board game?
47. What is your favorite thing to do with friends?
48. What is one thing you’ve never done but would like to try?
49. What is your favorite type of clothing?
50. What is your favorite way to celebrate a special occasion?
51. What is your favorite childhood book?
52. What is your favorite way to stay active?
53. What is your favorite thing about your best friend?
54. What is your biggest accomplishment so far?
55. What is your favorite type of flower?
56. What is your favorite thing to do at the beach?
57. What is your favorite type of art?
58. What is your favorite way to unwind after a long day?
59. What is your favorite thing about our relationship?
60. What is your favorite thing to do in the winter?
61. What is your favorite thing to do on a long weekend?
62. What is your favorite thing about your personality?
63. What is one thing you are grateful for today?
64. What is your favorite thing about our home?
65. What is your favorite thing to do in the summer?
66. What is your favorite memory from high school?
67. What is your favorite thing about traveling?
68. What is your favorite way to spend time with family?
69. What is your favorite way to start the day?
70. What is your favorite type of movie?
71. What is your favorite thing about your partner’s personality?
72. What is your favorite type of snack?
73. What is your favorite way to give back to others?
74. What is your favorite thing to cook or bake?
75. What is your favorite thing to do on a Friday night?
76. What is your favorite thing about being in a relationship?
77. What is your favorite memory from college?
78. What is your favorite type of adventure?
79. What is your favorite thing to do on a road trip?
80. What is your favorite way to spend a day off?
81. What is your favorite thing about nature?
82. What is your favorite thing about your partner’s family?
83. What is your favorite type of celebration?
84. What is your favorite way to show love and affection?
85. What is your favorite thing about your partner’s sense of humor?
Use these questions to deepen your understanding of each other and enjoy meaningful conversations. For more in-depth discussions, consider our online premarital course, covering topics like communication, conflict, intimacy, faith, God's plan for marriage, in-laws, finances, and more. Check it out here.
